Archive for April, 2009

I was driving today listening to NPR and heard an interesting piece on Fair Trade in Africa. Of course this piqued my interest as my brother lives in Rwanda and has founded one of the best platforms for social entrepreneurship I’ve seen. His company’s mission statement is this:

KEZA is dedicated to developing sustainable fashion businesses from existing women’s cooperatives in Africa. We will ensure sustainability, integrity, efficiency and quality from all of our KEZA partners. We will empower our partners to own their own businesses and work autonomously from KEZA. We will help establish Africa’s position in the luxury fashion industry and bring much needed income and careers to those in need. We will no longer speak of “those Africans” living in poverty. KEZA is where “they” become “we”, and together we will strive to bridge the gap between the rich and the poor.

 

So going back to the story on fair trade that I heard on the radio…they talked about how the understanding of fair trade has to be more than us just supporting places in Africa–we have to empower the people to know what they are doing and why. I was shocked to hear that the people in Uganda harvesting coffee originally had never tasted the stuff, and some actually thought they were growing bullets for the civil war. Talk about being disconnected with your work!

This got me thinking…how many of us take the moment to really stop and think about what we do each day? This applies for your work, but also emcompasses all the other areas of your life: spirituality, family, social, physical, mental and emotional. What things do we do on a regular basis? What is their significance? Why do we go to work in the morning? Why do we make dinner for the family at night? What’s the point?

Today, take a moment to evaluate all you did this past week–your attitude, your work, you personal walk, and how you interacted with others. What was the significance of all you did? Look at your common habits–do you criticize a lot? Do you drive to work day in and day out and worry in the car? Do you just go through the motions of cleaning the house and making the meals?

Look at your life with significance. I heard a man once say “Don’t confuse success with significance.” Just being productive in life–bringing home a paycheck, making sure kids are dressed and fed, or keeping track of daily needs–this may seem like you accomplished success, but have you really addressed the significance of what you are doing?

Going back to fair trade, the whole point is to value every aspect of the business, from giving the often overlooked and developing countries an opportunity to earn a fair wage to bringing great products and a new insight to the more developed countries. Fair trade is set up to give opportunities for business to areas that otherwise may be overlooked. With KEZA, the women of BURANGA who make the beautiful necklaces you see online work hard on every necklace. The KEZA team doesn’t just pay the women for the necklaces; they teach the women about the business. They explain the numbers and how quality really sells. They don’t tell the women how it is; they lay out the facts and allow the women to grasp and retain the understanding of what true quality products are. The women don’t just go about the process of creating each bead by hand in a robot-like manner. They know the business of it–they understand the audience that purchase the necklaces in the US and UK, and they know where every penny of the profits go–to create a living for them where they do more than just survive, they thrive, and to pay for tuition for their children to attend school, to pay for materials and rent for the business, and for health insurance and counseling for them and their families.


The KEZA business understands significance. They understand that what you do every day has to have meaning, and you have to have passion in life. This first group of women came from living a life of mere survival–from just living in sheer existence. They survived the Rwandan genocide, they survived rape and prostitution, family murders and ravaging AIDS victims. They had existed for long enough. Now they embrace significance. They embrace a life where every action has a consequence, and they can stand with heads held high, knowing their role in life is important to their children and to the world.

Let’s take note of it, and see how we make our own mark in this story that is our life. And if you are craving for more, check out this video for some little ways to make a signficant mark in the world: http://www.everymondaymovie.com/

A few weeks ago, I was asked for an interview. Wow–now why would someone want to interview me? Kendra Tilman, founder of http://www.goodlifediva.com/ has come to know me because of 48 Days, and she’s read my blogs on the NET. She asked to interview me as a work-from-home mom…it was so much fun to do, and I was able to give great props to both 48 Days and KEZA. The name of her website is Good Life Diva, and their mission is this: Our purpose at Good Life is to help mothers match their calling and their careers and obtain a quality of life that meets their family’s personal needs. Mothers all over the world need support and role models in this area.

Wow–what an honor. It meant a lot that she asked me for an interview…and once again, as I sat there as a role model for other moms, I was reminded myself about how much I, too should always be open to learn and grow. It’s so much easier to give advice to others than it is to live it yourself! As I heard myself talking about how to manage working from home and prioritize your life, I was thinking in the back of my head “if only I could do this better!”
I can’t say my life is perfect. I certainly can’t say that working from home is for every mom, or that it’s even easy for me. I have hard days, and I have days where I desperately reach out for family or friends to help with Clara because I have too much work to do. I have other days where I simply have to put work aside and focus on my child and our home. But, when Kendra asked what what the “Good Life” was to me, I was happy to say “I’m living it!”
The “Good Life”, to me, doesn’t mean that every day is perfect, that I’m basking in sunshine, or that I’m rolling in dough. It doesn’t mean that my house is spotless and not a drop of yuckiness comes out of some orifice on Clara’s face. But it means that I’m really, really happy. When I look at the overall path my life has taken, I’m happy with where I am. I couldn’t ask for a better life–I’m in love with my husband and he loves me back, I have a daughter that needs to “hold” me and tells me “I give you hug and kiss” every day. I have a roof over my head, and warm bed at night, and peace in my heart. I have a supportive family–both through blood and through marriage–that is involved in my life and in my daughter’s life. I’m blessed beyond measure in the things that stay close to my heart.

The weather changes, income levels may come and go, health is sometimes good, sometime not. I get stressed, tired, cranky and upset. So does my husband, and so does our daughter. But overall, we have love. And being in the present moment–embracing our good times, and knowing our trials will always pass–it makes me relish this good life I get to call mine.
Please take a moment to watch the interview, and please comment with what insights you may have for me and/or for others!
The interview is broken into two 10 minute segments–hope you can watch it!
Here is straight from her newsletter:
Hello, Good Life DIVAS! My interview with Ashley Logsdon of 48 Days.com is now online! As a WAHM (work at home mom) she understands the demands of having both a career and a family. In addition to discussing her family and work life, she also talks about an amazing organization she volunteers with that is impacting the lives of mothers in Rwanda. Watch her interview. I guarantee it will be worth your time. I know you know other women who could use the resources we provide on our site. SHARE them with all the mothers in your life who are or want to live the Good Life!